Best Gay Night Club Cary Near Me

Tajuana Duncan: Food: 5/5|Service: 5/5|Atmosphere: 5/5More

Lock Key: Nice place for partying.Food: 5/5|Service: 5/5|Atmosphere: 5/5 …More

Erick Bedoya: Love the atmosphere! Very aesthetically pleasing and friendly staff, but please I BEG. THE MUSIC. let’s do something about it because it’s horrible. where is the flavor? we want some trap/reggaeton/hip hip music. this house music is TIRED. all love tho but please change the music.

Mawih Elayah: The best

Emily Roberts: Usually I have fun here (hence the rating) but I was there Sunday night (4/16/23) and I guess I was going out the wrong door (although people had been going that way all night) and once I was already on the other side a man said "no ma'am) and grabbed my arm and yanked me back in. Like full on pulled me cause I was already on the other side. Then he said "the exit is that way". I'm not sure if he was an employee, but he had a black tank top, brown hair, and was very skinny (but also strong). I believe it was a little after 11 in the lobby between flex and the outside bar. If there are cameras it will prove it.

Mickililas Enoch: THE MUSIC SUCK! If you want to TWERK! Forget about it!

Isabel Rodriguez: great club wonderful to hang out at and socialize….but for the love of god change the music or get a new dj so we can hear something other than lukewarm house/pop remixes open to close!! thanks much love xoxo

Elora Herman: Best night ever, such a good time!

Jessica Forster: The music is terrible and way too loud... it’s a really intimate spot so I don’t understand why they need the music so damn loud. Could be a lot better if you could hear yourself and others in there. Fortunately it’s an easy fix but I don’t think they care!

CpBtch: Love it, everytime!!!

LiL Cheryl: Horrible music dj what are you playing techno music just play songs

Rich Conley: Where the who's who of NC Triangle thousandaires (like millionaires, but with thousands) go to party....

Lawrence Cole: Very fun place to visit,the weekend drag show is great!

Molly J: Came here last night, was super fun! This place is a lot bigger than I expected. The drinks were good, dj wasn’t bad but was mostly techno music. The staff was super friendly and we stayed for hours. Definitely coming back!

William Sujack: Great staff. Otherwise this place has gone downhill. Tonight we were there about 20 minutes before leaving. Music was horrible and just about everyone there looked like they were in high school with Xs on their wrist. Probably won’t be going back.

April Miller: Best ever. A no judgement zone. Full of fun and excitement

Mary Beth Hampe: Hours are wrong. Closed at 2am

Samantha Vater: Never been to a drag show before coming here, it was a great experience. Loved the vibe at this place

Minskani Chi: Love the place and people, but for the love of god fire the dj. He has horrible music taste and just kills the vibe. He was playing sad music and then play a repeat of one song for 10 minutes. Literally the whole dance floor stopped moving.

Mark Hultmark: So many screaming girls on the dance floor. Music was okay for the crowd but I prefer more house not pop

robin vermillion: Thursdays dragshow was great. Live singers made it even better. Cute too!

Æ Elve: Closed an hour before the Google said

James Lee: The kareoke master told me the song i requested he cant find it but he just played ot an hour to me requesting, he was was also falling asleep while i was requesting. Prob because im asian thata why he dont let me sing but it wasnt a good experience at all.

Edward Brown: EXCELLENT bar staff

Chris Dorn: Should probably train your side door attendant to be more kind to your customers. Old man was very unfriendly and made rude and unnecessary remarks for simply looking in his direction as approaching the entrance. Will not return back here for any reason whatsoever.

Shana Shuemate: Not my best white green tea shots, but there were plenty of tables and chairs to relax at. The music was good and it a chill time.

LiL Cheryl: It was more of a social spot had male dancers nice vibe cheap drinks

Anthony “Tony” Hadad: Nice place, a lot to see and friendly staff

Ryan: Gay karaoke bar. Friendly bartender. Clean establishment. Went on a Tuesday night; it was very quiet.

Keith Zammit: Love this place . Great bar tenders & staff. I’ve been going for 6 months and still enjoy it

Spencer Farrington: Outside of being a gay bar this is just a great bar period. People are very friendly, bartenders are fantastic, GREAT VIBES, and cheap drinks. You could ask for more.Maybe not as polished as other bars but I hate a bar without character.

Deby Swartz: Each time I go it's great. Karaoke on Tues and Wed is a hoot. The crowds are fun and supportive. Talent is not missing at Flex. The DJ has talent of his own. If you want a great place to go then run on down to Flex and party 🎉. Everyone is welcome there. Looking forward to the Drag Shows. I'm from Vegas and have high expectations for entertainment and they fit the bill on all levels. The bartenders are fabulous. C ya there.

Christopher Price: Good company. Good drink prices. Nice place to feel relaxed

kirk hernandez: Kind of remind of ny gay dive bars except no coke on the counters thank the Lord. Staff are great professional. Every week something is going on to meet the variety of clientele. Great drinks , recommend(Double) Liquid Marriana so good.

Max Freeman: Flex is probably one of the nicest and cleanest gay “dive” bars I’ve been to. The staff is exceptional. The bartenders make an effort to make you happy. There is someone coming around regularly to clean up the empty drinks from the tables. The bathrooms are very clean. Also, the prices are very reasonable. I highly recommend this bar.

Skylar PI: It's an amazing bar I feel at home when I'm there and all the staff super friendly. I 400% suggest this club.

C H: Went early on a Thursday and watched a drag show that was a lot of fun. The drinks were cheap and good. It's not as much of a 'dress your best' kind of place. You could wear your everyday clothes there and fit in. The people that work there are nice and the music was good.

Banana: Bartenders were very friendly.

stephanie rouquette: I celebrated my 50th birthday at Flex. I had never been there before. It was one of the best birthdays I ever had. I'm so grateful I got to have such a wonderful experience right before covid hit. It was a karaoke night and I felt so welcome. Bless you, flex folks. The best people.

Levi James Hudson: Lit. I mean LITERALLY one of the BEST bars in town. Great music drinks and atmosphere. The staff here are fantastic and so sweet and friendly[ At least the ones ive met] and because of them you're not just a patron of the bar you become family, they really make the whole atmosphere inclusive and so loving and accepting. All of my best memories with friends have happened in Flex and I've made so many friends because of it. I have had countless laughs and cries here it really feels like home when I walk in. I've not met the owner but he is in very frequently and from what I hear is just as great as his staff. I cannot recommend this place anymore 5000 stars. Flex and Staff and friends now family I love you!Friendly bartenders · Fun atmosphere · Stylish interior · Local hangout · Cheap drinks · Hip atmosphere · Perfect for parties · Creative cocktails · Great value

Patricia Galdamez: La musica no sirve de todos los generos escogen las canciones mas feas

Maria Pantoja: Buen lugar para bailar

Avail Aesthetics: Something different, something unexpected, something this city needs. Thanks for sharing your culture on Saturday nights and creating a space for the latino LGBTQ+ community!

Gso Gso: Sep 4th/21 zero face mask..wow...that is why we are where we Are

E.V. Lugo: If I could leave 0 stars I would. So disrespectful!

Tammy Vroman: Never again! You pay $10 to have to stand up. There are no seats at the bar and all the tables were reserved. I asked for a cup of water and they said no you have to buy bottled water. I tried to buy the bottled water and they wanted to charge me $10 because they don't do open tabs.

Cisco G: I went there for my Bday Sabor VLatinos Raleigh LGBT Saturday Nightit was the worse experience. I am always looking for something new and different especially a Latino LGBT Club. I paid for the entrance like any other club but there were no where to sit down. All the tables and chairs was reserved for a Drag Queen Bday. If I go pay to see a show there shouldn't be all tables and chairs reserved. I having nothing against Drag Queens which I have a lot of friends that are Queens and there are very talented but this was ridiculous & worse small club I been too. There was no where to dance. The bartenders were rude. The Drinks are super expensive. I am paying to have fun not to be like we are in High School Dance. Especially when I came from out of town visiting no one was friendly

Alex Gorost: Fun aaah not really

David latorre: RATCHET.... muy de baja clase

Bobby Arukwe: Dope place! Great vibes!

Kenia Aguilar: Uno de los mejores lugares la atención excelente

Michael Reives: Small good spot for a party. Only on weekends though. Noise ordinances make you turn the music down even though it's directly across from NCSU.

Idolor O.: Largely Latino club, interior not so impressive.

Rachel Lewis: Came after a NC State football game this last fall and wanted to have fun and left uncomfortable. This is not a gay bar for sure. It's super sketchy and ratchet. Not exactly what you picture when you see gay bar on google maps. Not a place for girls to go who don't want to be hit on and questions for homosexuals. Assuming anyone's welcome but watch out to be safe.

Angel: It was the first club I ever went to and it was nice

Sunset Richiez: Very fun!!!

Julius Rosales: Great club.

Doctor Quid: Love what comes through this venue!

Alexandra Smith: Love this place!! Jose is my favorite!!

Lynne Babineau: Very poor customer service. There was a mistake on my order for an event, and they ignored me for weeks before finally refusing to correct the mistake. Will not be supporting this venue again.

Joe Profeta: Great queer space with some unique drag shows.They need to get their online presence figured out though. Times and events are often incorrect or overlap. Overlapping would be fine if they were upfront about door times for each event online. And their reliance on Instagram is a hindrance for those of us who do not wish to support Meta.

Krnabrny Dziobak: Amazing… love this place!!!

Yormosi -: Fun little spot with good energy

Koorime Wakamya: First time going to see a friend perform and I had to leave early just because I couldn’t see anything. No seating was available unless you paid for it so everyone was standing crowding around the small stage in this tiny building and unfortunately I am very short and no one would move out of my way. I tried to squeeze around but no one would move. After 40 minutes of not being able to see anyone perform I had enough. It was very disappointing.

Sophie Faye: My wife and I loved this place, it was the highlight of our night. The amateur burlesque show had a lot amazing performances! Love all the positivity! Love Love Love the bartending staff.

Eaton B: this place is disgusting

Chris Campbell: Horrible experience and owner is a bigot that spreds hate and misinformation

uesemsee68 78: Trash establishment. Cockroaches all over the place. Cups covered in dried ketchup. Souls of your shoes stick to the floor from dried ketchup everywhere. And all drinks taste like butt

Mary Walters: The owner is super nice and this place is so cool. It’s nice to find queer spaces that cater to a wide variety of people. Would totally recommend.

John Hite: I don't know about their normal business model as we were just there for their Hopscotch day parties. The music lineups were great. The bar staff was helpful. The slushies were tasty. The beers were reasonably priced.The music shows were hosted outside, which worked out really well since the weather was good. The only real issue was the fact that there's a huge dumpster right next to the outdoor space that stunk to high heaven. Pretty off-putting.

M. Ian Lockey: Love this bar, love the music and dancing, quality curated space for a long time running, bartenders are great. I can’t get here often enough but always have a fun time when I do. Most of all I love their no b.s attitude, high standards and particularity. The nightclub / service industry has to cater to alot of fools, especially those who think they are welcome to spew their rhetoric whenever wherever but are turned off by a set of unwavering principals with backbone. Expect fun and togetherness for all ye compassionate partygoers. Dog bless America.

Blanche McKie: Where the true spirit of America is celebrated! Let freedom ring.

Jeff Tomkinson: A bar who shamelessly allows profanity and driving an agenda? 🤦🏻‍♂️No thank you. I'll go when the bar gets new management. 👋🏻

Lila Rieber: The vibe is divey with a damp smell, but the staff and clientele are all friendly. A little quieter than I would have hoped for a Saturday night, maybe because of the $10 cover

Kirstin Quigley: I got this rainbow slushee cocktail during the pride festival and it was so good and the service was great!

Emily Allen: Found a live rat on the ground and it started screeching at me like a roach. It climbed up my leg and I was terrified I have a fear of rats. 👍 Never coming back. Everyone was rude to me and was racist to me.

Lily Cloud: One of my favorite bars to go with a group of friends downtown. I could drink those alcoholic smoothies they make all night! Very affordable and I love how they have a downstairs dance floor in addition to an outside sitting section for some fresh air. The bartenders are also always a lot of fun as well.

N Walden: Red head Door girl very incompetent , basic looking. Looks like she rolled outta bed. Don’t even make an attempt to look like she work @ da strip club. Looked like she had on pajamas. They play games @ the door. Watched her and the guy at the door security, black guy short, lie to a girl who wanted to apply there. I could tell she knew they was lying to her. When all they had to do was get a manager and show her to them. She said she drove an hour to be there. I’m pretty sure they’re not in charge of employment & It’s clearly them making it so only certain girls work there. That girl was stunning. Looked hot, like a doll. Girl working the door didn’t and you can see the envy coming off her. When ppl come to apply they need to be taken to a manager. She shouldn’t be in charge of handing applications over to girls that want a job without the managers even seeing the chicks before they leave. Based on the way that girl at the door looks… they shouldn’t be picky. I know jealousy when I see it and that girl that was applying looked better than everyone i saw inside the club after she left. Due to her bitterness she made the club miss out on someone that definitely would’ve made them some $$$.

Doctor X: I went here for the first time in like 10 years. The way the club looks is complete 180 of what it looked like back in the day. It's a lot cleaner and more organized. The service is also great. The manager who showed me around and gave me a tour was very nice. My only qualm is the dances are super expensive compared to what they were in the past.

Danielle Ward: If I could give no stars I would. THIS PLACE IS BIAS! My husband and I were turned away because his pants didn’t have a zipper or button. Now a dress code is fine, I can respect that. My problem was when a white male walked in behind us and was let in no problem. He was wearing a plain t-shirt with khaki shorts that had a drawstring waistband (the drawstrings were hanging, clearly visible) no zipper or button in sight.I was flabbergasted! I DEFINITELY DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS ESTABLISHMENT READ THE PREVIOUS REVIEWS THERE IS A PATTERN !!

David Fitzgerald: Yall are great! Entertainment was 1st class. Bar staff kept our drinks full and took great care in all the wonderful ways. Thx!

Jenny O'Brien: Went here for a work function, twice, which was two times two many considering it was a work function. I thought it was going to be some kind of escape room, team building activity. Be warned, this is not an escape room. I do remember the security guy made me leave my rescue inhaler in my car even though I begged him to let me keep it. I thought all strippers wanted to go to nursing school but apparently no one realized the street value of albuteral is zero unless you have asthma like me. Luckily I was fine. Just traumatized bc like I said, NOT an escape room. Maybe escape from therapy which is what I should have gone to instead.

Marcus Smith: I'm in North Carolina now for a week and would like to see what North Carolina has to offer. What is the dress code? What is the cover charge?

Bailie Cook: lots of fun, enjoyed being a dancer here!

xxHømıcıđał Qůəəň: As a female myself, I went this past weekend & had the BEST time possible. The bouncer was very friendly, as was the lady at the front desk & all the male staff I encountered. I wish I could've remembered the few specific dancers names that i tipped and spoke with, they were so sweet and welcoming. And just a absolutely beautiful bunch of ladies! I actually left my phone behind, at the chairs seated around the pole (on accident, mere minutes) but I was so relieved and appreciative for the fact that it was still right where i left it.(I thought it might be gone forever) I will say, the average $20 cover fee, plus drinks, plus the singles you have to throw, is quite pricey but that's to be expected. I will definitely make my appearance again soon🙃Have a bathroom selfie, courtesy of your ladies room 🚺

KS: Not women-friendly! Very sexist establishment. I was turned away from entering due to being a solo woman. I was told I was required to enter with a man due to a newly implemented policy that requires women to be accompanied by a man. I was told to return with my partner to enter. However, I’m a lesbian and will most likely never decide to go to a strip club with a man. Very tasteless and non-inclusive of an establishment. The new policy should be advertised on their social media platforms to avoid women wasting their time to come here.

Katze Love: The dancers here are waaaay hotter than dancers at other clubs in NC. Everyone was polite to me, bouncers were respectful and helpful, and I had good convos with the women.

Jeremy Miller: I get the dress code but the amount of people y’all have maybe relax a bit. Just turned down a strip club owner because my buddy had under armor sweats that looks very similar to the guy who just left. But I love y’all’s club just wish I could have made it in.

Eaton B: It was raining at the lake so we did our motorboating here. 5 stars.

Doug Adkins: Amazing ladies. The staff....On point! The club is so clean. The rooms and amenities are wild!!! A true Gentlemen's Club!

Steven Rossi: Amazing service and beautiful women. I’ll for sure be back!

Kyle Stanley: I've had some ups and downs with this club since I started going to it, but last night was the tipping point on poor dancer etiquette that I have decided I will no longer be a patron of this club.Went in on a Sunday night a little after they first opened at 6 to catch a couple of the football games finishing up. Ofcourse there was only but maybe a couple girls there that were still getting ready so that wasn't an issue for the first hour and a half since I and a couple other guys were really just watching the game until the stage started running once other girls arrived. But, as the evening went on it didn't get any better. I spent a total of over 5 hours and I was not approached by any girl there except one that I've seen in my previous visits a littleafter I arrived. I asked her if she would like to do a 15 minute dance but she said she couldn't because she was waiting on a regular to show up (and this regular did not show up until an hour and a half later!). I then asked a couple of the girls that were practicing their pole tricks that I've seen before at the club if anyone of them would like to go do a dance, they said yes, but let me finish up some pole videos we're shooting for our social media for a few more minutes. And guess what, they never even walked by to my side of the bar or acknowledged me again after that. I understand the women are independent contractors but I honestly started to wander if this is how management teaches them to treat majority of the patrons there that actually want to upsell them to a private dance on a Sunday night. I finally asked one girl I didn't talk to at the end of the night (and keep in mind this is probably the 5th girl I asked) and she Finally said yes. I left immediately after our dance and said after that night I'm not going back.Also the managers there need to quiet down when a patron is trying to talk to the ladies, saw that one guy with glasses that's a floor worker yelling at football right next to other patrons.The only person who usually acknowledged and took care of me last night was your beautiful bartender making sure I was served when asked.I've had many great memories at this club before in the past with beautiful girls that were absolutely affectionate, but unfortunately they no longer work there and i honestly hope they are at better clubs nowI honestly hope management straightens alot of these issues out because that is just bad business. If you want to spend money take it to Teasers in Durham, the best Men's Club the Triangle has period.

shiva gattu: You respect yourself ?? This is not the place for you !!

John Yu: Bartenders will overcharge you and not give you an itemized receipt. 2 drinks 10 bux and started a tab. Closed out with 3 and it was 25 from the other bartender.

Abhi S (Bossers): Management is very unprofessional and RACIST

Jose Velasco: What can I say… the moment I stepped foot in this establishment it was a game changer . From the entrance door there I felt like it was going to be a legendary night . Bartenders drinks were on point . Customer service was top notch . The ladies really display world class dancing skills . I was very lucky to meet Gemma who really showed me how to celebrate a night of adventure . Pure Gold is a must when visiting the Raleigh area . Make sure to ask for Gemma or John and you will be in for a treat !

Nicholas Valeriani: Pure Gold is my favorite place to go in all of The Triangle. Unfortunately, I only live 9 minutes away...which is rough on the bank account. I am a bit of a strip club / gentlemen's club afficionado, and I can officially say that Pure Gold has become my all-time favorite.Their manager, Heaven (and now Jason), pay attention to the little things that bigger, louder clubs overlook. Security does a masterful job at nipping issues before they could ever grow, making the dancers feel safe and protected in the process.Lastly, the quality of young woman that Heaven recruits is remarkable--funny, smart, sexy, kind, playful. Sophie and Vixen are just two of the many standouts who perform incredible feats on the poll night in and night out, improving their craft always.Come to Cary, NC and check them out. I dare you...