Best Life Coach Wilmington Near Me

4worldlovers:
We all lose our way sometimes. We can get lost in the mundane autopilot of the day to day. We can get lost in who we are supposed to be. We can get lost in all of the people and things we love. We can get lost in big transitions where nothing is the same anymore. We can get lost because we never really knew who we were.

Sometimes no one else even knows we are lost. Sometimes we don’t even recognize it. All we know is that something doesn’t feel right. Something doesn’t fit, and we may not even know what it is.

It’s hard to put into words exactly what coaching is, as it’s a uniquely personal experience for each client. What’s universal is that clients develop the skills to move beyond the frustration, doubt, self-criticism, unhappiness, overwhelm, and disconnection they have been stuck in.

While some clients prefer to remain quiet about their coaching experience, others have some thoughts they’d like to share.

“I thought there was a 5% chance this would work for me, but it worked 200%!”

“Do it for yourself and your family will reap the benefits as well!”

“Now I‘m managing life’s issues as they come and not letting them pile up and run my life.”

“My coaching experience with Jen was nothing short of deeply transformative for me as well as my business.”

“Jen coaches you on finding your own words of wisdom and helps you regain your best self.”

“I can talk about anything with Jen and I know there will never be any judgment.”

“You begin to trust yourself and seek the answers you’re looking for within yourself.”

“I was content but wondered if there was more. After 5 weeks I have a new and exciting lease on life!”

How I discovered joy, meaning, and myself on the Upstate Impact Podcast.

4worldlovers: Feeling stuck in one or all areas of your life? Let’s create healthy boundaries, self love, and abundance that empowers you to step into the life you dream of. Learn more about Erica Stillman Lifestyle Consulting.

4worldlovers: Exhausted, Anxious, & Isolated shouldn't be the norm. Especially when you are here to change the world.


Whether you're a soul-led practitioner who feels depleted or a dedicated self-healer who feels stuck even though you have "tried it all" I have solutions for you!

A 6 week course designed to move you out of self doubt & into unshakable confidence. Connect to your inner strengths, gifts, & what actually lights you up.

Maintain healthy boundaries and get unstuck from all the bullshit that's been holding you back. Spend more time doing what you love and less time tending to your never ending anxiety, stress, and outdated coping mechanisms.

Learn how to radiate your super powers out into the world and master effective tools to feel grounded, empowered, and reconnected to your life purpose and true identity.

Empath is a hot ticket word at the moment but what if you could tap into your intuition and hold space for your clients in a way that felt less depleting and more nourishing? Master your gifts, learn how to make decisions with ease, and stop the insistent self-questioning.

Loneliness is an epidemic even for the women who are doing the work. My events are designed to help you deeply heal and create powerful non-codependent relationships that feel nourishing and are coated in levity and joy.

I believe every woman has the ability to deeply heal and live in greater alignment with their authenticity and purpose. Where we tend to get stuck is not knowing what to do or where to start. That's why I'm here!

Whether you are just beginning your healing journey, or you’re a seasoned practitioner yourself who simply needs a fresh perspective and a reset; the transformative experience I bring into my offerings is appropriate for anyone who is serious about their own growth, personal development, and well-being.

4worldlovers: Managing stress, taking care of ourselves and others, finding a way to align with passion. Sheesh! That is a lot of pressure!


Hi! I’m Jess, relationship coach and infant specialist working through an attachment and somatic perspective.

I am passionate about personal growth, healing, and bettering ourselves through relationships. If you have landed here, you’re probably looking for some support. Feel free to reach out for a FREE consult.

From the start of life, we grow through relationships.Throughout time most of the great, and tragic, experiences we have are within the context of relationships.

So, the key to health, happiness, and healing…you guessed it…

In other words… it’s all about You, Your Boo, and Your Crew!

In an effort to kick start our therapeutic relationship, scroll down for more about me to see if you resonate with my message…

Lifespan human development; you’re never too young or too old to grow towards wellness.

Adolescent and family studies; meeting your kiddo right where they are to support their teenage brain remodeling.

Pre and perinatal psychology; get ahead of the game by understanding your baby’s earliest developmental needs.

Attachment science; helping you and your babies bond and feel secure for life.

Bodywork and Somatics; use touch and body awareness to strengthening your holistic health.

Therapeutic presence and Coaching skills; my dedication to helping you move forward feeling safe and resourced.

My areas of specialty range from working one-on-one with individuals all the way through to working with infants. This makes my client base quite varied.

You may be interested in working outside of a “disease model” with a set treatment plan. Instead, you wish to focus on holistic and alternative approaches to health and development. Also, you are open to working with a coach as opposed to a licensed mental health therapist.

If you are looking to focus on your relationship(s), including the one you have with YOURSELF…

I can support you by facilitating the creation and action of all your goals, so that you may feel better within your relationship to yourself as well as with others.

I can also provide support if you are seeking tools to improve communication within your most important relationships.

If you are a parent or expecting a little one, I can help by…

Redefining the parenting relationship to focus on the attachment needs of your child rather than aiming for a “behavior modification”.

Utilizing play and body-based therapy to support your child’s social, emotional, cognitive and physical development.

Of course we know the most powerful changes come from within. The best thing we can do for the world and the ones we care about is to get right with ourselves. Practicing self compassion and investing in ourselves can feel super awkward if we aren’t used to doing it. Are you ready for clarity, renewed energy, and feeling better through a fun and engaging coaching relationship? Let’s talk about You!

4worldlovers: As a devotional alchemist, Shamanic healer, and sacred sexuality educator, it is my desire and soul’s calling to support those wishing to

To create sacred spaces for individuals to unfold and unfurl through ritual, psychospiritual introspection, and deep nervous system care.

The work I offer is an invitation of homecoming, into listening to the softest whispers from within, to tap into our ancestral wisdom and receive support in integrating big, intense or traumatic experiences we may need guidance in navigating.

I am devoted to supporting individuals to feel connected, safe and soft in their bodies; to trust in the Divine intelligence of their heart, body, mind and soul; to feel fully tapped in and turned on to their wholeness; and through that anchoring, be more able to show up fully in service to themselves, their families and their communities.

I offer my devotion, gifts and experiential wisdom through online courses, 1:1 mentoring + healing sessions and by facilitating community-building events in my physical community of Wilmington, NC and remotely worldwide.

Whether working with me in a one-to-one session or by taking one of my online courses, please be in touch and together we can co-create something beautiful.

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Have you been cruising along in life but then hit a few roadblocks which knocked you off track? Maybe life threw you a major shit storm and you don't know how to clean up the mess. Either way, you lost your confidence and feel scared and confused because you are in unchartered territory and out of your comfort zone. My coaching process will give you a roadmap to navigate through the tough stuff and reclaim your power, so you feel in control of your life again. By working together, we build self-confidence using positive affirmations, appreciate the goodness in your life by practicing gratitude, and remove distractions by organizing priorities. By learning these tips and tricks, you will not only survive the shit storm, but you will also thrive!

​Imagine 6 months from now still being in the same spot. Let's get real. Staying stuck sucks! Don't put your life on hold. Schedule a free consultation so we can start reclaiming your power and putting your life back on track.